(Crossposted from Wheat and Chaff) We talk a lot in Christian circles about how to love our wives, and rightly so.  But I fear that we neglect another command of our Lord, which is that we must hate our wives.  And I do not believe these are separate commands in tension, which we must learn to balance; I do not believe we can learn to love our wives until we learn to hate them first. “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.” (LukeRead More →